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alanna
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First let me say that I chuckled when I saw the post asking if women can have a smoking fetish! If I had a nickle for everytime I've seen that...
Let me introduce myself and give some background about me as this is my first post here...I'm a middle aged female who has much experience with fetishes in general and have personal experiences with men with a smoking fet--- as I've been in two relationships with men who had the fetish. What is my experience? I was involved (professionally) in the b d s m community (Actually started pre internet) and gravitated to fetishes as I was really not interested in serious S & M. I have much experience from my professional work, personal experiences and fet--- parties around the country. Luckally for you I have somewhere to go this am or you would be looking at a 3+ page post! (btw, I'm a free lance writer). I do want to say that to those men who are specifically looking for a women who smokes to satisfy their fetish...try and look for someone who is open to your fetishes and desires rather than just will indulge you on your specific fetish. Please remember, it's a two way street...try not to order your partner to smoke for you every time you get intimate, rather leave it up to her...if she really want's to please you she will anyway most of the time. Most women who are open with themselves se---lly realize and learn that what turns you on can turn us on as well. I will be writing more later...and very open to dissussions...Please understand that I am in a serious relationship with a great guy and not interested in extra cirricular activities with others. (PERIOD) I do love fet--- discussions and will be offering my unique perspectives on a regular basis.
Ms Alanna
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samtheking75
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`Hello im sam. i found your discussion very helpfull . i have question, how do i go about getting involved in all the many fet--- parties that go on over the country. i have fetishes and feel ill never get to share them with anyone.
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``Hello im sam. i found your discussion very helpfull . i have question, how do i go about getting involved in all the many fet--- parties that go on over the country. i have fetishes and feel ill never get to share them with anyone.
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