Avantegarden, 59

I've never dated online. That's what they all say? Well it's true. My last interest talked about women he met on this site, that site. My last interest was just like alot of them. Met me in person, knew I smoked, said it was cool,had a relationship, and ultimately said i had to quit. I'm not so bad looking, work out, eat healthy, and i guess they ignore the cigs compared to all the rest they see. Then they tell the truth.I'd like to meet someone who smokes and is smart, has a sense of humor and can appreciate same, even if it's born out of tragedy. I know why I smoke. Like I know why she eats too much and he drinks too much,but no ones trying to outlaw chocalate cake and alcohol. They kill the same as smoke. So I guess I'm looking for someone I can get along with who has the same poison. I like large men and I cannot lie. I don't want to hurt anyone, so I have to date above my weight class. I'm not proud,or ashamed. I've grown into the warrior required to protect the too very gentle soul that I am. It wasn't my idea, I prefer being lady mercy, but they won't let me! This conflict amuses and amazes good people, happy to oblige them! Bad people don't like it,and I don't care. I'm actually writig tonite because I'm going to the oyster festival in oyster bay tommorrow around 2pm, and i wouldn't mind meeting someone to walk around with and talk with who won't mind me smoking. It is short notice but i'll check mail in the morning. That's the kind of things I like to do. I know alot of people my age that smoke. Problem is, they can't walk around endlessly with me or ride bikes, not as physical as I am. I guess that's what I want. So say hi, and maybe we can talk. Have a nice weekend.